Blue,
I just reread my post, it was more about me than I meant. I was trying to show you how your wife felt but also, what happens when one pursues - I didn't mean to go on and on about me!

I hope you are feeling better today. Every day is up and down, you will start to get this and you will start to feel better.

I don't remember if you read Divorce Remedy, if not, read it right away.

It is not necessarily too late to show her you get it and you are sorry but if you want that chance, you have to let her go and give her the space she needs.

Start becoming the man you want to be and the man she needs you to be.

M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13