I like the way you've gone about to cover all LLs in your list. Does she know about the 5LL book?
Either way, I'm thinking that you might want to leave out the idea that it's 5LL oriented, just so that it doesn't come across as looking like a tactic. I also agree that getting her input into the "now" list would be a good idea, and the "later" stuff may be stuff that's too risky, so addressing them later is a good idea.
Even though your W appears receptive to this newly forming R, please be sure that you are taking it slow and not introducing too much, too quickly as it may overwhelm her and may also be difficult to sort out what IS working from what ISN'T working, or possibly causing harm.
If still relevant, try not to dwell on the wedding ring. Yes, think of it as a baby step, even if it hasn't stayed on.
Also, NOT FOR NOW, but maybe in the future, based on your spirituality background (I think) you may want to look at "Fireproof". It's not for everyone here, certainly not at the time when most of us find ourselves here. I feel there are some really good tips to help encourage and grow a M.
