I have been extended a Father's Day invite by my dad, and it includes my sister and my kids. My W father passed away in the last year so she has nowhere to go and nothing to do on this day, and my dad is the closest thing she has left to a father/older male role model. My father did not include my W on the invite -- maybe because he knows a little bit about what's going on with us, but maybe just because he wants just his son and daughter and grandkids involved.
Would it be going against DBing if I asked if she wanted to come along -- mainly because our kids will be there and involved. I would go regardless of whether she can make it, but is this a nice gesture to make? Or is it showing that I'm not quite detached enough? I know I can and will have a good time because the kids are around. I just didn't know if I should extend a pleasantry and tell the wife that she can come along.
Me 47 W 44 T 17 years, M 15 years D13, D10 March 2013 -- broke a trust/cheated late May 2013 -- W spoke of separation for first time June 2013 -- began reading DB
