Thanks RH and T. Not snooping is SOOO important to my PMA. I know that what I found snooping put me in such a poor mood that it put a negative feeling on the "surprise date" that W had set up a few weeks ago, for example. And yes, I'm sure she can tell when something is up with me, just like I can tell something is up with her. And, I do need to move on from tat-boy, I know that. She is likely still obsessed, but me knowing that hasn't helped so far, it has just made her more secretive. That isn't helpful.
Planning a date night for tomorrow night, need to focus in on the good.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"