I've been seeing a counselor but I decided to stop because I don't believe this particular counselor was a good one for me. I haven't decided if I'm going to search out another one.
I would encourage you not to give up. I was lucky and got a good referral to a counselor, and it worked well for me.
Were you and your original counselor setting goals? I found that to be particularly helpful.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13