You are right mizjjd.. either way I am going to be hurt. Right now I am hurting, and if he leaves I will be hurting. I kind of have the feeling that if he leaves, I will hurt and then at least be able to move on with my life.

In my situation, where he has no feelings for me and seems like he has no hope, how likely is it that he will come around, I am wondering. How likely is it that he will have a change of heart? If he is depressed, which is what I suspect, or having a MLC, then I can see that there would be hope if he eventually comes out of the depression, and comes to realize what is in front of him.

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.