Way to go TVS.

I don't think anyone is looking at you as the loser in this. They are looking at your H and wondering if he's lost his mind.

They are looking at OW and thinking she's a slut.

They are looking at you and saying "That is one classy lady"

And "they" are right, 3 for 3.

You clearly "got this", TVS smile

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.