Nothing additional to offer Newman. Glad that you took the time to develop your plan versus reacting quickly..... I think that's great....

Keeping posting - your story is helping others.....

Stay strong for you and the kids

Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork