Bets-
Thanks - I just know I am not handling this in the way I want to, and I want to handle it better before I address it with him. As an addendum to my new plan, I have to leave the house tomorrow by 8am to get to the laundromat (washer is STILL broken), and then I'm going to lunch with my wisest and best friend M. So H will be home alone with the extremely loud small person who always wakes up early.

Natural consequences...but I'm not gonna say a word.
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.