about the money, I don't know your situation, but you H has an obligation to maintain you financially. If you can survive for now, then don't complain to him -- this is a 180 since he would expect complaints, etc.
If you cannot survive for the time-being, then maybe go through the attorney? I'm really not sure the best approach. To beg, plead with him etc. is a bad idea. So seek out alternatives first.
