Grizz, good to see you post again. I would suggest not to be too available to her or do too much for her. Let your W own the repercussions of her actions. The other thing is that whenever you interact, you need to be the best Grizz there is. Dress nice, PMA, project confidence, etc.
In my case, the DB coach and I analyzed the situation and we find that my W wants excitement, romance, etc. So I've made an effort that when we do things together they are exciting. For example, this Friday we will do a "date night" and I'm taking her rock climbing. The message over time is that I can be exciting, our marriage can be exciting.
In your case, you need to know what is your W missing from the relationship? what made her unhappy? In your interactions with her, provide this. I think the amusement park is a great idea. Try to "date" her once a week or every other week.
It might sound harsh, but doing nice things for your W will not necessarily bring her back. Fixing problems for her and her new apartment won't make her want to return. Determine what things will, and then do those things only.
