I made an accounting mistake on the checking account... It overdrafted our joint account. As I was preparing to go and deposit cash to cover this overage, I get a text from H "Due to your overdraft of the Checking and Savings accounts, I have been forced to close them. Please do not attempt to access any of my personal accounts, email accounts or work. Thank you. Have a grey day." Im sure that was supposed to say "have a great day" or maybe not I dont know.
Last week he texted saying that he had opened his own accounts, I was free to spend what I wished of the joint account, (he left $200 in it) and he would replenish it when it got to zero.
Small victory: I didnt respond. LOL I didnt call. I didnt go into the account settings and change it all so he cant access it. I emailed my attorney, and left it at that. Radio silence. Go not just dark, but pitch black.
Side note: I hit up the nosey roomie to ask to help with finding a job. Hopefully, I will be posting soon that I am gainfully employed, and you all wont have to hear about my H and I's money any more!
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now
