How about volunteer work? I started volunteering at a local pet store since Dec when H was still living here to help cats be adopted. I started doing that because my biggest problem was I always put myself first. I always wanted to do something for me. I always wanted H to spend time with me on te weekends. I have pretty good photograph skills but I've never spent time taking others. So I knew in order for me to change, I had to start helping others. Again, it was the one of the best GAL I started. Aside from volunteering I volunteered to go take family photos, party photos, baby photos of my friends and they were extremely appreciative and it made me feel really good I started doing those things for myself but my H noticed them and commented on the 180 activities from me.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
I started doing those things for myself but my H noticed them and commented on the 180 activities from me.