The worst part is that I am thinking he is biding his time, by staying around the house only to get his finances/etc. in order. Although a few have mentioned that I am lucky that he is still at home, so I am trying to see that as a positive thing. I know I am better off to not confront him about it... but it is SO hard! In a way I feel like confronting him because I am trying to protect myself so I do not get hurt anymore, if he is planning on leaving anyhow.
I fully understand the protecting yourself thing, but if he really IS confused, confrontation could push him in the direction of leaving.
Me:38, Wife:36 M:8 T:13 No kids Bomb:3/10/13 W moved out:3/30/13 Started D paperwork: 10/14/13 D final: 12/30/13 To a future of love and happiness...