Limbo, I have the same questions about what to do in situation like this. I’ve just had a thought (I think I’ve read it somewhere), that you can keep being nice to your H especially when he needs you. This way you will put some “love” deposits into his "love bank". He will get used to it even though he is cake eating at this time. At some point, when you feel like it, you can stop doing these nice things for him. And he will feel it. Don’t know where you draw the line though, I’m still trying to determine it for myself.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
