Clear goals and a vision for the future

[Lyrael]

Bets-
Yes, I specifically asked that he delete his entire account on the site, and he stated thought he thought he had (which I do believe - there was no recent activity on the account). You know, you're right - my entire response has been completely different than it would have been six months ago.
I am a little less sure of him moving in, because instead of seeing the guy I was really developing trust and new emotional bonds with, I suddenly see the a*hole that cheated on me, lied to me, and walked out the door.
Here's his profile, if anyone's curious - it was titled "Alexythemia"
no word for feelings" thats what the title means...I'm not certain it applies, I think no time for feelings would be more accurate. I have a busy life, that is becoming increasingly more hectic, leaving little time for my personal life. I own a business that requires the majority of my attention, and I am working on a degree in art. This isnt much of a "what i like or dislike" thing now is it? I like a good deal more than I dislike...but I abhor racism and bigotry, I cannot stand people that are cruel without provocation, and a closed mind will get you nowhere with me! Im actually a pretty funny person, not that you could ever tell from this statement.



Ideal Person: creative,fun,open-minded,witty,active,&q uot;insert positive adjective here"...sounds like a shopping list. I am not looking for someone who will give me their heart and soul, as I dont feel like I deserve so much of any one person. I want someone to spend my downtime with, someone that can deal with a guy who is not afraid to say pretty much anything he thinks, someone open to new expieriences both within and without their body.

He also posted on his profile
that he was looking for women who wanted kinky stuff - that's VERY out of character, so I don't know if that's actually what he wants (I dunno - I am pretty open to anything that way) or if he was just doing a "f*** it all" kind of thing - I posted an online personals ad about the same time. But NOT on a kinky site like that. Okay - this feels like a bomb - I didn't know about it, no matte how long ago it was - I am kind of hurt and angry - is that okay as long as I don't freak out on him?
Should I tell him not to come home yet?
*sigh*
Myrrh