The worst part is that I am thinking he is biding his time, by staying around the house only to get his finances/etc. in order.
Although a few have mentioned that I am lucky that he is still at home, so I am trying to see that as a positive thing. I know I am better off to not confront him about it... but it is SO hard! In a way I feel like confronting him because I am trying to protect myself so I do not get hurt anymore, if he is planning on leaving anyhow.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.