Kaffe,

Thank you very much for the support. My wife and I did not know each other that well before we started dating. We worked together but that was it. We dated 1 1/2 years before I asked her to marry.

I do agree that she may have a personality disorder. I myself have been checked and was diagnosed with personality - cluster C disorder. I believe she may be a cluster A.

I do not think I am 100 percent sure I can be honest and not have intentions of winning her back by recognizing her bday. So for now, I have decided to not recognize it when it comes.


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13