Clear goals and a vision for the future

[Lyrael]

I know how to sepll crazymake, it just cut off for some reason. Anyway - H asked me to call him today, but since my therapist boss is doing a phone session with a client and we only have one line, I decided to IM him instead. Here it is, word-for-word:
Me: Good morning, sweetie! Hugs (As Bob as I can be
(As Bob as I can be over IM)
H: Hiya
Me: Did you sleep okay? (asked because he had our crappy bed that supposedly was SO BAD to sleep on)
H: I think so, was just very cold.
Me: It did get really cold last night. I'm glad the other bed was okay. That was a complete lie - I had hoped it would be at least a little uncomfortable to sleep on (it was for me) so he'd want to come sleep on our new bed. I am evil, aren't I?
Me: Well, I just wanted to say "hi" and see how you were.
H: Hehe I'm good, gonna go grab a sandwich.
Me: Okay, enjoy your food.
H: Did you pay water bill? Or do I need to go do that? I think he's going kind of pa on me on this one. He has been saying he was going to do it since Monday, and now is asking me if I did it? I didn't because he said HE was going to take care of it - about 5 million times.
Me: No, I had to come in at 9 this morning.
Me: Actually, 8:45.
Me: Are you still okay with doing that?
H: Yup, gonna do it in a sec, after I munch.
Me: K- thank you.
H: NP That's no problem - I'm sure everybody knew that.
Anyway - is he being PA? Or is it possible he has just forgotten every day for the past three/four days?
Did I do okay?
Thanks,
Myrrh