We don't really know if it's MLC until the journey is complete. I feel like my H is because he did so many 180s. He abandoned and neglected the kids, he dropped church, dropped and ignored his friends, multiple affairs, new friends, new activities, massive depression, etc. There are just too many things that happened for me to feel this was about him having issues with me or the marriage. But even then, it's possible this is who he is. It's possible he has had a secret life for the past 13 yrs and just hiding it from me until he didn't want to hide it anymore and he doesn't want to be responsible or tied to anything.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17
