Be kind, be clear, be firm. No anger needed. Just a clear expression of your requests (spell out a path forward for him that will really work for you - ask for 100% of what you want, not just some appeasements) and a willingness to be done. That will speak very loudly.
Agreed!! Ask for exactly what you would like, in your situation you are perfectly reasonable in asking for those requests!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
