SP, ramble all you want. I still have moments when I wonder, what the he!!?

As Ad says, the small picture can make you crazy but I think for most of us it's a slow process to get from the minutiae to the 30,000 ft view. And most here are control freaks we tend to get caught up in the little details. I think we should all start out with one guideline: Unless your spouse is contacting you about making a serious attempt at reconciliation, never engage with them, ever!

You about a little who you wanted to be, expand that away from just roles you assume to the core of who you are. What are your values? What guides you in decisions you make every day?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss