You've got a good start in the reply to Meredith's comments.
Let me ask you a question that Meredith and I asked ourselves over the weekend. Something to chew on and help us put the focus back on the goal...
Can you picture your H being married to someone else?
If the answer is a resounding NO, you're going to have to commit to the process of working this through with him. Because all indicators show that your H is committed enough to come back home and make changes himself.
You're part of that process...
So grab yourself a bowl of fresh mint chocolate chip ice cream and give yourself a new attitude to go with it!
You can do this!
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."