GM & WBW - I too hope that my sons become good men, fathers, and husbands one day too. This fact alone keeps me going. My children.
GM - Our children, while didn't want or need any of this, are strong and will build their strength from the parent they most respect and see. This is what God keeps telling me, which is why I stay as strong as I do.
GM, I have said this before and I will say it again. You are a strong woman and mother. You can do this girl! I aspire to be strong like you...look at what you have been able to do for the past 18+/- months. And think of how much more you will do in the next months, years,etc.
Let's face it. Your H is a stupid man right now to let someone like you be out of his life. You are the prize sweetie...and I beleive he will regret all his losses one day...maybe not when you would like, but one day.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life