The continual texting is tough to deal with, I know. nolongersure is right, the texting will eventually slow down. But eventually can feel like forever.
What are some of your ideas for GAL?
I'd also like to ask if pre-bomb you would have communicated with your H about something that bothered you? Or did you just swallow whatever the issue was?
I don't know enough to comfortably advise on "boundary setting". Hopefully a "vet" will come along with more guidance.
Hang in there Kelela. This is all very hard work.
Good luck on your trip to Florida. Concentrate on your wonderful sons and how nice it will be to see your family.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
