I still feel completely done with my wife and sitch and I can say I am happier than I have been for a long time. I'm no longer afraid of being on my own.
I have very, very little communication with my wife - this seems to be what she prefers - and I'm ok with that. When we do see each other or speak I am always friendly and accommodating. I feel completely detached - her mood no longer effects mine...
She continues to hide OM from our son despite me telling her that I trust her completely and when she feels son is ready to meet OM I won't do anything to make things difficult.
On to me, still trying to improve myself - I am now 4 weeks without smoking, I am saving some money for the first time in my life, and I am spending lots of time with my son and my friends.
I have no crystal ball so have no idea what the future will hold but I can confidently say something; IF my wife decided she wanted to reconcile she would have some serious work to do on herself to even get me to consider it for a second.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
