"how do you think it would have affected your experience if your wife never had an orgasm"
Even when dating? It would have made me feel invalidated as a man as if I couldn't satisfy her.
Even when dating?? LOL I guess that happens for some people -- the hottest sex and orgasms are BEFORE marriage. Well, not in this case. No orgasms ever. You see, I believed the crap in the sex advice books, which said that women reach their peak later than men, when the women are more comfortable with their bodies etc. So I figured that patience was the best approach, and to not pressure her about orgasms. Well, rather than becoming more comfortable with things, she became even less comfortable and less interested as time went on.
