However, there are other ways to create boundaries--possibly ask her to move to another bedroom/part of the house. You do NOT want your children to perceive YOU as the WAS. Children often had more negative feelings about the parent who leaves, despite the involvement of that parent.
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Hi GTO , yes I fear this.^^^^ and what my kids think is very important to me. I suppose I can go at it again, we tried this for 30 days early in my sitch where we took turns in the marital bed, but then she budged and then we started sleeping together again. We are pretty much separated at home now, where I don't bug her. I just wish she'd leave me alone, do what she has to do just not on my watch.
She's good now again. Every time I call her out on her EA she stops, she realize she's doing the immoral things...I guess she needs to be reminded? Idk, I don't wanna keep doing this I'm not the EA police, but sh!t It boils me when she puts her EA before my kids.
Originally Posted By: littleGTO
Good luck--I'm not sure I've been helpful at all!
GTO , you've been helpful, I really appreciate your input.
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
