"The trick with the house staying with the kids and the parents coming and going, called nesting, was something I ran across and thought made sense, so I ran it by my L who has many years served as a guardian ad leitum for kids in family court situation. Not sure I'm spelling it right, anyway... He said it's a terrible idea. Seems good at first but then what about when one of you is dating, or marries, or is mad at the other for this or that? It's cleaner, according to this L, and therefore better for the kids, to rip the bandaid and create two separate homes for them. They get used to mom's house and dad's house better than all continuing to share space. That was his opinion."
Adinva, so thank you for bringing this up^^^^! I get it now, reading a lot on google re "nesting" very eye opener. So sorry about your sitch, you seem you got handles on your sitch. Keep me in check thanks again.
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
