Good for you for knowing yourself and your boundaries.
My H is in EA w OW and moved out in Nov. He visits kids here almost exclusively, but everyday. It works for us-mostly.
However, there are other ways to create boundaries--possibly ask her to move to another bedroom/part of the house. You do NOT want your children to perceive YOU as the WAS. Children often had more negative feelings about the parent who leaves, despite the involvement of that parent.
No talk of, talking to, texting, any contact whatsoever w OM while at the house.
Sharing a bedroom is VERY difficult, but I understand your desire to separate. I have to admit it is much BETTER for ME to have H gone--more space to DB & figure out me.
Good luck--I'm not sure I've been helpful at all!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
