His story was bs imo. Why wd her brother call a guy up asking him to check on her bc she seems down, sounds implausible to me. And less plausible that he would accommodate the request with nothing but "thinking of you", not a question no response prompted. Makes no sense. Sorry but your intuition sounds right.
I like the way you stated your position, if anything cd help your sitch its that kind of grace and dignity.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.