You changed the question to what you wanted to respond to.
You had more than a couple of posts wondering what to do about the anniversary, you said So I am more and more torn about the anniversary.
I'm not trying to beat you up, I'd just like you to be honest with yourself. My anniversary meant something to me, there's no crime in that. I was sad when it came and went without fanfare but I got over it. I've chosen to let it pass without mentioning it. I can remember it on my own but it's not a day of celebration for us as a couple.
The honorable things are what we do without expecting personal gain, the good we do when no one is looking because that's who we are.
Who do you really want to be, sp?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
