a phrase I have been using for a while to buy a few seconds, and at the same time is
"I see your point" and "I understand your point" - it's not saying I agree but buys me a few seconds, and also throws a dollop of validation back on her, which can't hurt.

This is of course for phone/ in person conv. Email it's more a changing channel thing....


Bill. "you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant Link To CURRENT Sitch