Hi Linda~~ Thanks for the encouragement. Very much needed. I agree about expectations. Seems your are right on target. That way they can soar when things go the way they are supposed to. Did that make any sense?? I am so glad you found out that RT will not be able to get her green card. Makes me smile. I think you are so strong and showing such class and grace as you go thru all this heartbreaking stuff. And just from what I have been reading about RT class and grace is something she will NEVER have no matter what. So hold your head up and keep moving forward.
H texted me that he is feeling bad and sick. Ummmm why not tell the JW?? Of course that thought stayed in my mouth this time. So I told me feel better,blah,blah,blah. H response.." Do you have any bread and maybe I could have some toast if I came over?" So H will be over later. H is used to me taking care of him and babying him when he doesn't feel well. And the worst part is I feel bad because he doesn't feel well. I know that so much of it is stress and all this drama H has created on his own. So I will play nice. But my question is is this playing too nice?? Have a peaceful, calm, drama-free night. I am sure I will be back later to journal my evenings events.