Husband has one foot out the door!

[ALF213]

Hi H61. Thanks for stopping my sitch and the support!

I can relate to being the initiator. I feel like I am constantly in the dark with were my W stands because she doesn't talk about her feelings...or so I thought. By backing off she has come to me twice in the last two weeks to say she was having a bad day. She cried a little both times, which is also rare for her during our relationship.

I'm not saying this is right for your sitch, but by backing off, it allowed my W to come to me. I never really gave her the chance to come to me before. First sign of sadness and I was asking her what was up. Now when I see it, I ignore it, and eventually she has come to me. Do something different. Its worth a try!