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Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future #235738 02/04/04 03:30 PM
Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 837 Illinois, USA L Lyrael OP Member
OP Lyrael Member L Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 837 Illinois, USA	Okay - totally ripping off Bill's goals fo rme today - 1: Working on thought-stopping and mentaly "changing the subject." 2: Keep track of how many times I want to call him and call him every other time (I am interested in tracking how many times the urge comes up and how many urges I can resist before I call him). 3: Take a mental step back when I start getting irritated - I think I need a code word for myself when I can feel the temper getting out of hand, and an innocuous phrase I can use to buy myself time in conversations. Any suggestions? Heading back to Bill's thread... Myrrh One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.

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Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/23/04 07:13 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/23/04 07:23 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	kml	01/23/04 08:33 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/23/04 08:36 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/23/04 08:42 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	cycler28	01/24/04 12:46 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	KutieKat	01/24/04 01:02 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/24/04 09:33 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/24/04 09:59 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/25/04 03:29 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	optimist	01/25/04 04:32 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/26/04 05:10 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/27/04 01:54 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/29/04 09:30 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/29/04 09:37 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	01/31/04 02:10 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/31/04 04:28 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	01/31/04 12:50 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/31/04 01:58 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	01/31/04 02:00 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/31/04 03:02 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	01/31/04 05:02 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	02/01/04 10:34 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/02/04 06:34 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	02/02/04 06:46 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/02/04 07:38 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/02/04 10:04 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/03/04 02:40 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	02/03/04 03:33 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/03/04 08:50 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	02/03/04 08:57 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/03/04 11:16 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/03/04 11:57 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/04/04 01:06 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/04/04 03:30 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/04/04 03:30 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/04/04 03:59 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	02/04/04 04:58 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	02/04/04 07:54 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/05/04 03:30 AM
Backslide!!!!	Lyrael	02/05/04 05:35 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	ObiWan	02/05/04 10:55 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Lyrael	02/09/04 05:18 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Underdog	02/09/04 05:33 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	freckles1	02/10/04 12:42 AM
Re: Backslide!!!!	ObiWan	02/10/04 10:23 AM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Lyrael	02/10/04 03:25 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Underdog	02/10/04 04:15 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	ObiWan	02/10/04 04:46 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Meredith	02/11/04 01:20 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Lyrael	02/11/04 02:45 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Underdog	02/11/04 07:50 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Lyrael	02/11/04 08:22 PM
Re: Backslide!!!!	Underdog	02/11/04 08:24 PM
Victory Number One	Lyrael	02/12/04 04:59 AM
Re: Victory Number One	Underdog	02/12/04 02:08 PM
These are the convos that make me want to crazymak	Lyrael	02/12/04 08:09 PM
Follow-up	Lyrael	02/12/04 08:24 PM
An Addendum	Lyrael	02/12/04 08:51 PM
Re: Follow-up	Underdog	02/12/04 09:01 PM
Re: Follow-up	Lyrael	02/12/04 09:16 PM
The Huge Screw-up	Lyrael	02/14/04 03:56 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	Lyrael	02/14/04 06:40 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	ObiWan	02/14/04 08:34 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	Underdog	02/14/04 09:00 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	ObiWan	02/15/04 04:22 AM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	Lyrael	02/15/04 04:26 AM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	Lyrael	02/16/04 06:07 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	TripleJ	02/16/04 06:27 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	Lyrael	02/16/04 06:32 PM
Re: The Huge Screw-up	TripleJ	02/16/04 07:40 PM
Beginner's Mind...AGAIN	Lyrael	02/17/04 04:48 PM
From Deep in the Land of Withdrawal	Lyrael	02/19/04 02:47 AM
Re: From Deep in the Land of Withdrawal	MovinOn	02/19/04 02:53 AM
Re: From Deep in the Land of Withdrawal	ObiWan	02/19/04 03:51 AM
No backslides here...	Lyrael	02/19/04 04:16 PM
Re: No backslides here...	MovinOn	02/19/04 04:23 PM
Time for your masters degree in DB	Underdog	02/20/04 02:49 AM
DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/20/04 06:00 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Meredith	02/20/04 07:47 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/20/04 07:54 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Underdog	02/20/04 08:15 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/20/04 08:21 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Underdog	02/20/04 08:24 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/20/04 08:35 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Underdog	02/20/04 08:46 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/20/04 08:51 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	ObiWan	02/20/04 09:47 PM
Re: DB - The Undergrad Years	Lyrael	02/21/04 01:20 AM
The first real success...	Lyrael	02/21/04 07:49 PM
And the first big failure	Lyrael	02/22/04 10:27 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Underdog	02/23/04 01:39 AM
Re: And the first big failure	Lyrael	02/23/04 05:36 AM
Re: And the first big failure	dazedboy	02/23/04 10:59 AM
Re: And the first big failure	Lyrael	02/23/04 03:39 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Meredith	02/23/04 04:06 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Underdog	02/23/04 04:14 PM
WOO-HOO!!!	Lyrael	02/23/04 04:26 PM
Re: WOO-HOO!!!	dazedboy	02/23/04 04:33 PM
Re: WOO-HOO!!!	Lyrael	02/23/04 04:46 PM
Re: WOO-HOO!!!	comebackhome	02/23/04 04:46 PM
Re: And the first big failure	dazedboy	02/23/04 04:22 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Lyrael	02/23/04 04:48 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Underdog	02/23/04 05:48 PM
Re: And the first big failure	MovinOn	02/23/04 06:01 PM
Re: And the first big failure	Underdog	02/24/04 02:32 AM
Reunited and it feels so good....	Lyrael	02/24/04 02:28 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	Underdog	02/24/04 02:34 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	Lyrael	02/24/04 02:41 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	comebackhome	02/24/04 02:59 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	dazedboy	02/24/04 04:40 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	Underdog	02/24/04 04:41 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	dazedboy	02/24/04 04:43 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	Lyrael	02/24/04 07:28 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	marc_d	02/24/04 07:43 PM
Re: Reunited and it feels so good....	Underdog	02/24/04 08:01 PM
The Latest Update	Lyrael	02/25/04 07:58 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Underdog	02/25/04 08:23 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Lyrael	02/25/04 08:36 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Underdog	02/25/04 08:40 PM
Re: The Latest Update	dazedboy	02/25/04 09:25 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Laurie	02/26/04 12:50 AM
Re: The Latest Update	MovinOn	02/26/04 01:53 AM
Re: The Latest Update	Underdog	02/26/04 04:15 PM
Re: The Latest Update	dazedboy	02/26/04 09:11 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Underdog	02/26/04 10:19 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Lyrael	02/27/04 06:00 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Meredith	02/27/04 06:27 PM
Re: The Latest Update	Underdog	02/27/04 08:41 PM
Sick as the Proverbial Dog...	Lyrael	02/28/04 01:22 AM
Re: Sick as the Proverbial Dog...	dazedboy	02/28/04 12:10 PM
Chickens and Other Things	Lyrael	02/28/04 05:09 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	MovinOn	02/29/04 09:39 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	dazedboy	02/29/04 11:24 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Lyrael	03/01/04 03:16 AM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	dazedboy	03/01/04 10:36 AM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	MovinOn	03/01/04 12:28 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Meredith	03/01/04 12:43 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Underdog	03/01/04 03:42 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	comebackhome	03/01/04 04:15 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Meredith	03/01/04 04:19 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Underdog	03/01/04 04:23 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	Lyrael	03/01/04 08:50 PM
Re: Chickens and Other Things	DBB	03/01/04 11:15 PM
Re: The Latest Update	ObiWan	02/26/04 02:36 AM
Re: The Latest Update	comebackhome	02/26/04 12:34 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/29/04 11:39 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/30/04 01:33 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/30/04 02:47 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/30/04 03:35 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/30/04 03:59 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/30/04 05:00 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Underdog	01/30/04 08:17 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	Lyrael	01/31/04 12:18 AM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	01/31/04 05:08 PM
Re: Clear goals and a vision for the future	ObiWan	02/01/04 07:30 PM

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