I am trying so hard to do my own thing and give him space.. Which is so hard since I have been the initiator of everything for 13 yrs. So now since I have stopped initiating things, our house is so quiet and now more than anything we feel more like roommates. I guess the hope for all of us is that eventually they will be the ones to reach out for us?


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.