Portia, If you opt to contact him again, I would wait and wish him a nice 4th of July. Very simple and a nice gesture.
What I think is going on right now is if the GF is back in the picture, he's getting his ego kibbles from her full time. Nothing has rocked his boat right, so he doesn't feel the need to contact you to get those additional kibbles. You were always there ready to listen and provide the support he needed and trust me, he'll be there again when his world gets rocky. The question is...will you be there?
Portia, please do not put your life on hold or wait for him. If he is truly meant to be w/you and he wakes up and realizes that he wants to be w/you, then he'll had to do some major paddling to catch up w/you. He's the one that has to earn your trust back big time. For now, Portia, live your life to the fullest. Time stands still for no one.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
