Now 2+ yrs time to get off this limbo

[newman7977]

Yes that is exactly my plan when we separate is to continue with LRT. I've been trying LRT since last EA back I April, you know not initiating contact, I'm not too available etc. I also have a hard nosed boundary, I'm just not to sure to approach it that's why I post the q's. but I know one thing is clear, we have to go our separate ways so we can figure out our own paths. If she comes back good if not I'm ok too. Thanks PM.

So the question is what is the best approach to separation:

So now what? I don't think she will move out and I don't want to move out either. I want it fair we both move out and we take turns with the kids, the kids keep the house...I think that's reasonable right? She doesn't wanna move out because she will hear it from her family.

My other option is to take my kids with me on the days I have them but they will hate me for taking them out of their house.

Should I leave then? I really don't want to but for my sanity?

The other option is to stay in the house until the A dies ? Wtf that's not me though!

Thoughts???

Newman

Sandi? Others???