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Even if he was boinking the daylights out of some little hoochie, I couldn't do anything about it. That makes me crazy! But odds are, he probably isn't.



goal for tomorrow - stop crazymaking. Identify when you're running around in a mental circle and "change the subject" with yourself. It gets easier each time (thought you will sometime slip).

goal 2 for tomorrow - I will keep track of each time I want to call him, and call him every other time. I will set a limit to how many times I will call him before he has to call me back (how about 2)

You're doing the right thing, just keep tabs on driving yourself nuts. If he really did something bad, that's one thing, but a LOT of what you're feeling seems to be your second guessing him and yourself.

change the channel

Bill. "you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant Link To CURRENT Sitch