I guess I'm finally going to start to take Bond's advice and get my balls back. If she spews D I will calmly tell her where the door is if she wants to leave or feel that will bring her happiness. I've done to much reading today on WAS and how the stats of them returnig are low. They do exactly what they do to Crimson and I. Come back and then run again if they "perceive" any old behavior.
I guess I will live as a roomie for now. I have been now for 2 months. At the end of the day handling MLC or WAS there is no logic to it. You need to detach and work on thyself.

I feel like I need to set more boundaries this time around. Something I've been chicken to do because of fear.

KD and company thanks for support.