Quote: So I got mildly irritated (for no reason-wtf is my problem sometimes?), but I managed to stick to the subject, not start a fight, and not be insulting.
Great job. I'm thinking that there was actually a reason, though. For instance, when I start wanting to pick fights with Mr. Not-so-Wonderful, I have finally figured out that I want him to verbally affirm me. I need positive feedback, and when I'm getting it, I have no reason to engage in crazymaking.
Have you thought about any patterns to the times where you need to get his attention?
Keep swimming, because you'll get to Sydney if you do.
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
