Now 2+ yrs time to get off this limbo

[newman7977]

Yes I agree sailing...still processing my feelings.

I'm torn right now and need some opinions/advice here. From our talks last night my W ask, why do we have to put restrictions on seeing the kids? Why can't we just do like we do now (yeah live together while she goes on her EA)? I couldn't tell her the real reason, which is because I don't want to know her affairs, the kids don't know about her EA and the kids were around so i couldnt say that, so I looked like a fool pushing for separation. I just told her, you don't get it were separating there's no us.

So now what? I don't think she will move out and I don't want to move out either. I want it fair we both move out and we take turns with the kids, the kids keep the house...I think that's reasonable right? She doesn't wanna move out because she will hear it from her family.

My other option is to take my kids with me on the days I have them but they will hate me for taking them out of their house.

Should I leave then? I really don't want to but for my sanity?

The other option is to stay in the house until the A dies ? Wtf that's not me though!

Thoughts???

Newman