A plan of action...vet advice needed

[SFC_Swede]

Limbowife...I know this sounds hollow, but many of the vets on the board are right about several things. The one thing they are dead right about is....it does get easier/better. Sure, we LBS are crushed initially...and if you allow it to drag your ego through the mud, only make the pain last even longer.

But what DB and other on the board taught me was to not be so incessantly needy to the point that my life was over if the W wanted out. In all this pain, I have learned several things, but the most important is to respect myself and realize I did everything I could to save the M. She chooses to walk away, so...I hope she finds what she is looking for. I bet the grass wont be so green once I am gone.