Her father hates me and thinks I'm not "right" for her and that all my attempts to save our marriage/family were about me not wanting to pay her. That I care only about money. He will be glad she moved out and away from me. Just a guess there, but I feel pretty confident on that one.
Doesn't matter, we all have one or more of those in our sitches. I doubt he'll be much of an influence on her decisions. He sounds like the type that never approved of any choices she made and was always right there to point her mistakes out to her. She's more likely to defend you to him than to listen to him, because listening to him would basically be admitting that she was wrong about choosing to marry you.
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How can a woman be intimate with someone she has no feelings for?
Don't start believing her now brother Remember the DB tip about not believing anything they say and only half of what they do. She's not out of the tunnel yet. She DOES have feelings for you, otherwise she wouldn't have come back. But she's got to say she has no feelings because she wants to try that on and test to see if it sounds "right" to her. She'll figure things out, just give her time and space to do so.
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Hell, seems like I'm asking the same questions I did 8 months ago! One step forward......
So quit asking!! Because you will NEVER get a satisfactory answer. WAS's emotions are running the show. Logic and reason are on vacation in Tahiti. When emotions are running things, actions don't make sense. Don't try to make sense out of them, focus on YOU and leave her to sort her own issues
Remember the DB tip about not believing anything they say and only half of what they do. She's not out of the tunnel yet. She DOES have feelings for you, otherwise she wouldn't have come back. But she's got to say she has no feelings because she wants to try that on and test to see if it sounds "right" to her. She'll figure things out, just give her time and space to do so.