In the meantime, what sort of things can I do to re-establish that trust aspect (and any other things that may be bothering her)?
I have become much less secretive with my phone, leaving it out in the open for long periods of time and not hiding any texts I receive; I have taken all single women out of my contact lists, even if they are friends of hers, so there is no hint of impropriety; I have given her access to all of my pertinent online accounts -- banking, email, Facebook.
I tell her where it is I'm going on the rare occasions I go out, though maybe I should send her a pic of the people I'm out with, or call and have them talk to her so she'll know I'm who I say I'm with?
Also, which book do you think is more important for me to read first, DB or DR?
Me 47 W 44 T 17 years, M 15 years D13, D10 March 2013 -- broke a trust/cheated late May 2013 -- W spoke of separation for first time June 2013 -- began reading DB
