Crimson, I feel for you. Man, even in my dire situation, I feel for YOU. That's tough.
I fully agree with 25. I think she needs a wakeup call. It sounds like she is not willing to actually "CHOOSE" how to be. As most of us here know, long term love is more of a choice than a feeling. Now, I am not in a place where I can give advice to you, or to anyone for that matter, but what 25 said really makes sense to me. What 25 says, almost always makes sense to me....as does everything I allow myself to hear on this forum. Sometimes an outside perspective is our only true guide. Please listen to me to when I say; You have done so much work, she would LITERALLY be a fool to leave you. I hope you realize that, Crimson.
