Highway, Very sorry we meet in this situation. I think even though you are going through such pain I feel you have the advantage that he is still in the house for whatever his reasons are. Your DBing tatics will be noticed more I believe. I spent almost a month between my W dropping the bomb and her moving out doing EVERYTHING wrong. Begging, pleading, her knowing I had been crying, making her talk about everything... On and on. I wish for that time back. Now I only see her when we pass the kids back and fourth every couple days. Not leaving much time to see my changes besides my physical change. I wish I had read DB before she dropped the bomb. Lol. But don't we all. Good luck to you.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship