Divorce FINAL, Where to go from here!

[jaytee35]

Cadet,

I think I am feeling the need to do this so I can maintain some sort of friendship with her at the very least. I know it would be considered pursueing but in the same time I feel that I should be doing something.

I think I would just expect her to respond like an adult with no resentment and just be cordial.

Kaffe,

We met through work. We both coached at a local highschool. I was interested in her so I had flowers sent to her while she was coaching a contest. We then went to dinner two days later and the rest was history.

She is acting extremely abnormal. I have never seen this side of her and honestly feel like she is not even close to the person i married. She is very pleasent but I have seen her be nasty to others when she did not get her way.

I think I am ready to date but I do not think I am ready for anything serious. But I am okay with hanging out with the opposite sex at this point.

I def will stay dark, I just need reinforcement every now and then when I am thinking of pursueing. Her Bday is in July, if she does not contact me at all by then, would it be appropriate to send a card or flowers just as a friend wanting to say happy birthday??

Cadet,

Thank you for the facebook post. These things really help to keep things in perspective