Thanks, I will look into doing that.

In the meantime, does anyone have any suggestions/feedback on my situation and what I'm doing? Which of the two books would you recommend I read first?


Me 47 W 44
T 17 years, M 15 years
D13, D10
March 2013 -- broke a trust/cheated
late May 2013 -- W spoke of separation for first time
June 2013 -- began reading DB